Below is a confession to declare over your situation. Job 22:28 "Thou shalt also decree a thing, and it shall be established unto thee: and the light shall shine upon thy ways."
Confessions Over Strife
I resist all angry and violent struggle, any bitter conflict. I refuse to participate in trouble or discord of any kind. I will not allow competitive thinking or actions against other believers to have a place in me, in Jesus Name.
Psalm 119:165 declares that “great peace have I because I love His law and nothing shall offend me.” I refuse to be offended. I refuse to carry hurt and pain from the actions of others. Peace is my portion. I cast down every thought or imagination that brings up accusations from my past. I release all wrongdoing done to me intentional or unintentionally. II Timothy 2:24 declares that “...the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient.”
I am purified in the love of God and the fruit of love is abounding more and more in my heart each day. I will remain in love, think in love, act in love, and respond in love. The Word is true in my life and effectually at work in my heart.